Significant Relationships- Year Two

Many people think that teaching is simply teaching, meaning a teacher walks into a classroom spills the information and the students absorb it. But this couldn't be further from the truth. Teaching is one of the most difficult careers because what many people don't realize is that some students don't attend school to learn. For many, school is simply a social event, or even worse just a place to go for the day. Teachers must learn how to engage each student in a way that applies to them personally. The best way to get every student engaged is to form relationships. This isn't as easy as it may sound. Every student is different and every person needs something different out of a relationship. Some students need constant support, while some need a small nudge. So the daunting task for teachers is to master the art of forming relationships because its proves to be the most important.

I had the opportunity of interning with Mrs. Donna Russell this past year and it wasn't the first time she has surpassed my expectations. I was lucky enough to not only be her intern but her student in 8th grade as well. It was Mrs. Russell who opened my eyes to the amazing world of education. Before I was in her class, I pushed away idea of becoming a teacher because of the shallow mindset of not wanting a teacher's income for the rest of my life. But by simply watching Mrs. Russell's daily passion, my unfounded mindset immediately changed. Mrs. Russell began forming relationships from day one and continued building them until her students left her class. With her comforting smile and accepting nature, her vibrant room quickly became home for many. I witnessed all different types of students meeting in her room before and after school just because they liked being around her. And because they liked being around her, they gave her respect during class so in turn their learning was enhanced. Aside from relationships increasing learning in the classroom, relationships build individuals into better people. Mrs. Russell was a comforter, encourager, friend and an inspiration. Through her relationships with her students she taught them aspects in life that are much more important then grammar or spelling. She taught them empathy, patience, and most importantly love. What is so amazing about Mrs. Russell and what continues to impress me is her precise intention within her teaching. She strategically thinks out her actions and sentences to her students. She realizes that something as small as her tone can dramatically impact her students. And it is through this strength of hers that helps her form even closer bonds with her students. Because of Mrs. Russell's warm personality and her genuine intentions, she creates relationships that help her students throughout the year and throughout their lives. I'm not sure if Mrs. Russell realizes how much she is truly impacting people, but if I can be just half the teacher she is then I will consider myself successful.

When I become a teacher I plan to develop the skill of intention so I can reap the benefits like Mrs.Russell. I think that intention is an extremely important and honorable quality because something so small can make such a huge difference. I think the difference between a good teacher and a great teacher is based on intention. When I see a teacher being intentional, I can tell immediately that they truly care for their students because being intentional takes time and effort. I hope to create a thought process that is constantly empathetic and understanding. I want to express compassion and love through my actions. And I aspire to create excitement and passion when I speak. I know that the only way I can make this happen is if I thoroughly think out my actions and words, because actions and words hold great power.